King qualities every relationship will continue to encounter once or twice in life. The lacking qualities are were one of the two does seem to see the bigger scenario, which brings the relationship down in one or another. Points to be taken in consideration are when one does not attend a planned date, how does this look when the date is planned with awaited anticipation by one of the two. The date comes to no surprise one of two does not show up for the event. How does this make the one who has keep the time and date ever vigil in the calendar to be deflated by the unpreparedness or the second. The feelings become hurtful and disorientated to the one who has been ready from the word "GO." Two; when one of the two starts to change the routine and behaviors of how this relationship should evolve without giving any consultation to the other, which become a despiteful action. How does that give feeling to the one who is not even consulted by this change of course. And, again everything is continually being justified by the one who navigates the relationship 50 to 100 miles in another direction. All the justification in the world does not take away the sting, which has given a lot of thoughts to the one who is being manipulated by all the justifications, are being feed cartes blanches without even knowing what has happened. Then when questions are being asked about this change of venue in the relationship, then everything is being skittered around the edges getting all the wrong answers to perfectly valid questions. How does that make one think of a person who has a been given a lot trust in a life, who can not truly speak the truth.
Monday, May 17, 2010
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Faith in a Relationship
To keep a relationship strong , re-enforced, and to have longevity, there are many points one needs to consider when, that relationship rings a bell in both of your anatomy’s. First is both of you must develop a strong mutual foundations even though both of you may differ on a few topics in life.
Find a medium base for this will keep the foundations strong. In this fashion no one will hit a point, which is unknown, unfavored unvetted both of you. Both of you can engage each other without hitting a sour note allowing room for mutual growth and for favorite events such as; preparing meals together, camping, hiking, and all other nifty fun things speaking about other points of interests.
All the relationships are not truly perfect, which is reason for both of you to continue developing a good ethic of standing by each other when an unsteady moment arises. This is where faith and patience’s plays a key role in keeping your relationship re-enforced. Especially, for the man who pursues some agenda does not have a rhythm or a reason to it, as it may have some falsities, which the woman perceives a non-resonating for her. Take time to listen to what she has to say then, build your foundations from what she continues to indicate in each of her dialogues. Clearly, this Yes having faith, patience, and determination will cause a relationship go on until the final analysis of life for both of you. When the man allows “Patience and Understanding” into the picture, I believe he man will be much happier, when he redirects what he envisions for the relationship upon the mutually shared vision.
This is what you can call “Embracement .” The embracement pulls each of you together. Both of you will feel strength flow all around you from side to side. This delightful feeling will fill you with happiness, strength, and ease. Most importantly never give up on both of your thoughts and feelings, which originally brought you both together.
Find a medium base for this will keep the foundations strong. In this fashion no one will hit a point, which is unknown, unfavored unvetted both of you. Both of you can engage each other without hitting a sour note allowing room for mutual growth and for favorite events such as; preparing meals together, camping, hiking, and all other nifty fun things speaking about other points of interests.
All the relationships are not truly perfect, which is reason for both of you to continue developing a good ethic of standing by each other when an unsteady moment arises. This is where faith and patience’s plays a key role in keeping your relationship re-enforced. Especially, for the man who pursues some agenda does not have a rhythm or a reason to it, as it may have some falsities, which the woman perceives a non-resonating for her. Take time to listen to what she has to say then, build your foundations from what she continues to indicate in each of her dialogues. Clearly, this Yes having faith, patience, and determination will cause a relationship go on until the final analysis of life for both of you. When the man allows “Patience and Understanding” into the picture, I believe he man will be much happier, when he redirects what he envisions for the relationship upon the mutually shared vision.
This is what you can call “Embracement .” The embracement pulls each of you together. Both of you will feel strength flow all around you from side to side. This delightful feeling will fill you with happiness, strength, and ease. Most importantly never give up on both of your thoughts and feelings, which originally brought you both together.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Allow the Divine Nature to be in your Relationship
To fully understand a couple or significant friends one must sincerely slow down, take time, and truly understand and convey the Love one has to offer. Too many times, which is sad, couples and yes even significant friends are encouraged to look into the acts of kindness, which is being done for them as a sign of Excellent Care, instead as of a hidden agenda, strings, or something else. This action is looked upon as act of "Act of Reciprocation." The act of reciprocation does not weight to heavy upon the particular man or woman who does not want to return or accept anything as it will eventually be a cost factor to them in one or another. Again the modernists have done a great injustice to how God designed a relationship to function and play out. These few thoughts, into a new dimension of re-evaluation of how to continue to be "Excellent" to the one who is being care and loved.
When Love is created by the Divine Nature allow the Divine Nature to transcend naturally without having to keep the act of Love hidden away until the right moment. The Act of Love is a natural flow of actions one does in course of the relationship to show how much the person means to them. One who loves does not know anything else to show and do acts of random Love, Care, and Kindness. That is very appropriate in a Relationship of Love with desires to expand when that moment is preordained by the Divine Nature.
Allow Love of the Divine Nature to become part of your lives more fully and readily at all moments in your Special Relationship. For heaven sake please don't allow the modernist to interfere with treating your mate "Excellent" and imparting care and compassion love upon either your man or woman. Most importantly, is to pray with your mate asking the Divine Nature to keep each of you true to yourselves and to each other with His Natural methods. And, lastly, allow the act of Love to become part of both of your lives without putting boundaries between you and your loved.
When Love is created by the Divine Nature allow the Divine Nature to transcend naturally without having to keep the act of Love hidden away until the right moment. The Act of Love is a natural flow of actions one does in course of the relationship to show how much the person means to them. One who loves does not know anything else to show and do acts of random Love, Care, and Kindness. That is very appropriate in a Relationship of Love with desires to expand when that moment is preordained by the Divine Nature.
Allow Love of the Divine Nature to become part of your lives more fully and readily at all moments in your Special Relationship. For heaven sake please don't allow the modernist to interfere with treating your mate "Excellent" and imparting care and compassion love upon either your man or woman. Most importantly, is to pray with your mate asking the Divine Nature to keep each of you true to yourselves and to each other with His Natural methods. And, lastly, allow the act of Love to become part of both of your lives without putting boundaries between you and your loved.
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Speaking Engagements
Engagements
Dr. Nicholas is available for wedding or renewal vows, Cana and pastoral
counseling, bereavement, youth, adult, or family life. He has been
currently scheduled for health care providers, free enterprise, and general
informational sessions in the evenings in Elk Grove, Folsom, Lodi, and
Sacramento, CA.
These speaker engagements can be arranged by sending an email
losito_14@hotmail.com and/or written contact at P.O. Box 583152 Elk Grove,
CA 95758-0055. All Further inquiries are welcomed.
Dr. Nicholas is available for wedding or renewal vows, Cana and pastoral
counseling, bereavement, youth, adult, or family life. He has been
currently scheduled for health care providers, free enterprise, and general
informational sessions in the evenings in Elk Grove, Folsom, Lodi, and
Sacramento, CA.
These speaker engagements can be arranged by sending an email
losito_14@hotmail.com and/or written contact at P.O. Box 583152 Elk Grove,
CA 95758-0055. All Further inquiries are welcomed.
Pillars of Society
Dr. Nicholas Is seeking Pillars of Society to become part of the team who can share provide support and advocating in free enterprise system, palliative care, and marriage and family. The Pillars of Society are a community members of the the community who can assimilate Dr.Nicholas to the rest of the Communities in the Region and in the Nation. Dr. Nicholas continues to look to hear from the ones who are serious in making a difference.
Sunday, February 7, 2010
Prayer for the Family.
O God of goodness and mercy, to Thy Fatherly guidance we commend our family, our household and all our belongings. We commit all to Thy love and keeping; do Thou fill this house with Thy blessings even as Thou didst fill the holy House of Nazareth with Thy presence.
Keep far from us, above all else, the blemish of sin, and do Thou alone reign in our midst by Thy law, by Thy most holy love and by the exercise of every Christian virtue. Let each one of us obey Thee, love Thee and set himself to follow in his own life Thine example, that of Mary, Thy Mother and our Mother most loving, and that of Thy blameless guardian, Saint Joseph.
Protect us and our house from all evils and misfortunes, but grant that we may be ever resigned to Thy divine will even in the sorrows which it shall please Thee to send us. Finally give unto all of us the grace to live in perfect harmony and in the fullness of love toward our neighbor. Grant that every one of us may deserve by a holy life the comfort of Thy holy Sacraments at the hour of death. O Jesus, bless us and protect us.
O Mary, Mother of grace and of mercy, defend us against the wicked spirit, reconcile us with Thy Son, commit us to His keeping, that so we may be made worthy of His promises.
Saint Joseph, foster-father of our Savior, guardian of His holy Mother, head of the Holy Family, intercede for us, bless us and defend our home at all times.
Saint Michael, defend us against all the evil cunning of hell.
Saint Gabriel, make us to understand the holy will of God.
Saint Raphael, preserve us from all sickness and from every danger to our lives.
Our holy Guardian Angels, keep our feet safely on the path of salvation both day and night.
Our holy Patrons, pray for us before the throne of God.
Yea, bless this house, O God the Father, who hast created us; O God the Son, who hast suffered for us upon the holy Cross, and Thou, O Holy Spirit, who hast sanctified us in holy Baptism. May the one God in three divine Persons preserve our bodies, purify our minds, direct our hearts and bring us all to everlasting life.
Glory be to the Father, glory be to the Son, glory be to the Holy Ghost! Amen.
Keep far from us, above all else, the blemish of sin, and do Thou alone reign in our midst by Thy law, by Thy most holy love and by the exercise of every Christian virtue. Let each one of us obey Thee, love Thee and set himself to follow in his own life Thine example, that of Mary, Thy Mother and our Mother most loving, and that of Thy blameless guardian, Saint Joseph.
Protect us and our house from all evils and misfortunes, but grant that we may be ever resigned to Thy divine will even in the sorrows which it shall please Thee to send us. Finally give unto all of us the grace to live in perfect harmony and in the fullness of love toward our neighbor. Grant that every one of us may deserve by a holy life the comfort of Thy holy Sacraments at the hour of death. O Jesus, bless us and protect us.
O Mary, Mother of grace and of mercy, defend us against the wicked spirit, reconcile us with Thy Son, commit us to His keeping, that so we may be made worthy of His promises.
Saint Joseph, foster-father of our Savior, guardian of His holy Mother, head of the Holy Family, intercede for us, bless us and defend our home at all times.
Saint Michael, defend us against all the evil cunning of hell.
Saint Gabriel, make us to understand the holy will of God.
Saint Raphael, preserve us from all sickness and from every danger to our lives.
Our holy Guardian Angels, keep our feet safely on the path of salvation both day and night.
Our holy Patrons, pray for us before the throne of God.
Yea, bless this house, O God the Father, who hast created us; O God the Son, who hast suffered for us upon the holy Cross, and Thou, O Holy Spirit, who hast sanctified us in holy Baptism. May the one God in three divine Persons preserve our bodies, purify our minds, direct our hearts and bring us all to everlasting life.
Glory be to the Father, glory be to the Son, glory be to the Holy Ghost! Amen.
Healthy Relationships.
Many people experience problems in relationship because they do not have any idea whether their relationship is healthy. As an ordinary human being, we constantly seek for advancement in everything we do. No doubt that this is good in almost every area of our life but this is not always true when it comes to relationship. Seeking for improvement is good to a relationship if you work to improve it from the inside out. However if you start to seek improvement by comparing it with other couples, you are asking for trouble. The reason is simple as almost every relationship is not the same and it is impossible for you to compare it with other couples. The definition of a healthy relationship may not be the same for each couple and hence before you dare to think that your relationship is inadequate or unhealthy, evaluate the below to determine whether your relationship needs improvement.
In every healthy relationship:
1) Both you and your partner enjoy passion and safety. There is also a shared sense of intense passion and sexuality but they are not the key aspect of the relationship. In other word, passion and sexuality are the resultant of a balance relationship but not the cause.
2) Your relationship revolves around shared values, goals and lifestyle preferences which were established based on respect, trust and sense of security.
3) You know who your partner is and what your partner wants and vice-versa, your partner knows who you are and what you want.
4) Both your feelings’ and communication are well balanced and clear. You do not allow your feeling to be the excuse on irresponsible act which can affect your relationship and vice-versa.
5) Both you and your partner has the room to think clearly for yourselves, for each other and as well as your relationship as a whole.
6) Both you and your partner are present for each other and vow to support each other’s wants or needs to the best ability.
7) You are satisfied with who you are and more important you are satisfied with whom your partner is.
8) You do not hide your partner behind the scenes and are proud with what they do/did or who they are and vice-versa.
9) You are pleased with the relationship that you both built and you know that nothing can replace the relationship and lastly,
10) You have a realistic expectation on the relationship, on what it can or cannot do for you and most importantly both of you are happy and satisfied with the expectation.
If your relationship possesses most of the above quality, you are on the right track to a perfect relationship and you have nothing worry about. Seek to work on improving the other area that is lacking. And for those who did not meet the above quality, you can always use the above as a guideline to improve the health and wellness of your relationship.
In every healthy relationship:
1) Both you and your partner enjoy passion and safety. There is also a shared sense of intense passion and sexuality but they are not the key aspect of the relationship. In other word, passion and sexuality are the resultant of a balance relationship but not the cause.
2) Your relationship revolves around shared values, goals and lifestyle preferences which were established based on respect, trust and sense of security.
3) You know who your partner is and what your partner wants and vice-versa, your partner knows who you are and what you want.
4) Both your feelings’ and communication are well balanced and clear. You do not allow your feeling to be the excuse on irresponsible act which can affect your relationship and vice-versa.
5) Both you and your partner has the room to think clearly for yourselves, for each other and as well as your relationship as a whole.
6) Both you and your partner are present for each other and vow to support each other’s wants or needs to the best ability.
7) You are satisfied with who you are and more important you are satisfied with whom your partner is.
8) You do not hide your partner behind the scenes and are proud with what they do/did or who they are and vice-versa.
9) You are pleased with the relationship that you both built and you know that nothing can replace the relationship and lastly,
10) You have a realistic expectation on the relationship, on what it can or cannot do for you and most importantly both of you are happy and satisfied with the expectation.
If your relationship possesses most of the above quality, you are on the right track to a perfect relationship and you have nothing worry about. Seek to work on improving the other area that is lacking. And for those who did not meet the above quality, you can always use the above as a guideline to improve the health and wellness of your relationship.
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