Showing posts with label Couples. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Couples. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

The Best Person.

The difficulties started when… conversations became texting, feelings became subliminal, the word ‘love’ fell out of context, trust faded as honesty waned, insecurities became a way of living, jealously became a habit, being hurt started to feel natural, and running away from it all became our solution. Stop running! Face these issues, fix the problems, communicate, appreciate, forgive and LOVE the people in your life who deserve it.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Take Your Eyes Off Yourself!!!!

What I have noticed from speaking to young couples in one way or another there is a one out the two who have taken their eyes off themselves to palace their eyes on the other. Then for another reason the other continues to keep their eyes on themselves. That is truly a sign there will be a hidden agenda is brewing, which mean the person who is will totally for the other will become a victim in the relationship.
Each time I continue to meet with a person in every session “Take your eyes off yourself to become a more effective member of your relationship” I am happy when those take my advice to become a Servant of servant to your mate. Although, it saddens me to hear how the person who has taken his/her eyes off have been hurt by the actions, which has cause mille of hurts.

I continue to emphasize take your eyes off yourselves to develop a stronger relationship to last until both of you come to the final analysis of life.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Faith in a Relationship

To keep a relationship strong , re-enforced, and to have longevity, there are many points one needs to consider when, that relationship rings a bell in both of your anatomy’s. First is both of you must develop a strong mutual foundations even though both of you may differ on a few topics in life.

Find a medium base for this will keep the foundations strong. In this fashion no one will hit a point, which is unknown, unfavored unvetted both of you. Both of you can engage each other without hitting a sour note allowing room for mutual growth and for favorite events such as; preparing meals together, camping, hiking, and all other nifty fun things speaking about other points of interests.

All the relationships are not truly perfect, which is reason for both of you to continue developing a good ethic of standing by each other when an unsteady moment arises. This is where faith and patience’s plays a key role in keeping your relationship re-enforced. Especially, for the man who pursues some agenda does not have a rhythm or a reason to it, as it may have some falsities, which the woman perceives a non-resonating for her. Take time to listen to what she has to say then, build your foundations from what she continues to indicate in each of her dialogues. Clearly, this Yes having faith, patience, and determination will cause a relationship go on until the final analysis of life for both of you. When the man allows “Patience and Understanding” into the picture, I believe he man will be much happier, when he redirects what he envisions for the relationship upon the mutually shared vision.

This is what you can call “Embracement .” The embracement pulls each of you together. Both of you will feel strength flow all around you from side to side. This delightful feeling will fill you with happiness, strength, and ease. Most importantly never give up on both of your thoughts and feelings, which originally brought you both together.