Saturday, May 21, 2011

Imminent Change

What I have learned from Relationships from couples who have been celebrating their 50 plus celebrations of marriage continued to say the re-enforcement in their long Gevity together was continuous forgiveness. Actually, they called it “Kiss and make-up” this is a good term to continue to use in our modern era.

It does not make sense when a particular couple can not achieve forgiveness in their lives. When forgiveness is not achieved it is when a particular male or female has a hidden agenda brewing within their minds some particular reason they can not grant forgiveness or as the elders would say “Kiss and make-up” to their prospective mate.

What I have come to learn from counseling men who have come to me for support during a moment in their lives. The men continue to tell me is their female counterparts are in an isolation mode with a sterile statement “I prefer no contact” as this statement has a lot ambiguity in it. The men are totally irate when they hear this statement. The reason the men are irate is the women counterparts do not have any answers for them. This leads me to believe there is truly a major hidden agenda involved in the women’s lives. And, women refuse to say anything to men not to give more information to men then needed. This is a very sad moment for the men.

All the more the female counterpart could use some relationship counseling as their male counterparts. The only way the women will come into a relationship session is when they feel deep down in their hearts, minds, and souls a change is imminent for them to provide.

Let us pray for an imminent change for these couples to become forgiving, loyal, compassionate, understanding, accepting and loving to each other continuously