Bereavement Points

Bereavement is commonly known as a section of sorrow from sudden or death with a parent, child, and other close family, and friends. In the advent of all the perils, which have encroached upon our Nation under the title of “Culture of Death” has now brought into the parameters of bereavement employment, relationships, and pets.
Bereavement in general does not always meet up with approving thoughts. One would think bereavement counseling is for “L” loser. A loser would be the one who does not seek out the proper care of his/her life. In the results can lead to one of the other levels of why one can suffer from torment depression. This torment depression can also lead to lack of performance in employment settings, decrease in expressing feelings to your spouse’s/fiancées, and having your kitty or puppy bit you.
Bereavement support is ever necessary to readjust to become the person one is to be prior to the death (human/pet), divorce, and work. Without having the proper directional support in one’s life can become very miserable, along with thoughts of doom/gloom, poor me, and what happened. Of course there are many other thoughts, which will martialize during the moment of grief/sorrow.
Bereavement can become a painless and comforting moment in 12 month period. Bereavement is the time where one can heal from all the trauma of the eventful loss.
I am not saying that your hurt and pains will not continue to linger. To have lingering moments, where one could wake up in a cold sweat not have their loved one and or four legged family member near them. The best element of bereavement is just speaking what you are feeling to release all the important thoughts out to a counselor that will direct one back into a stable balance of life.
Very important to contact Dr. Losito, when there is a loss of both human and pet life, relationships, and employment.

Take Your Eyes Off Yourself!!!!

What I have noticed from speaking to young couples in one way or another there is a one out the two who have taken their eyes off themselves to palace their eyes on the other. Then for another reason the other continues to keep their eyes on themselves. That is truly a sign there will be a hidden agenda is brewing, which mean the person who is will totally for the other will become a victim in the relationship.
Each time I continue to meet with a person in every session “Take your eyes off yourself to become a more effective member of your relationship” I am happy when those take my advice to become a Servant of servant to your mate. Although, it saddens me to hear how the person who has taken his/her eyes off have been hurt by the actions, which has cause mille of hurts.

I continue to emphasize take your eyes off yourselves to develop a stronger relationship to last until both of you come to the final analysis of life.

Imminent Change

What I have learned from Relationships from couples who have been celebrating their 50 plus celebrations of marriage continued to say the re-enforcement in their long Gevity together was continuous forgiveness. Actually, they called it “Kiss and make-up” this is a good term to continue to use in our modern era.

It does not make sense when a particular couple can not achieve forgiveness in their lives. When forgiveness is not achieved it is when a particular male or female has a hidden agenda brewing within their minds some particular reason they can not grant forgiveness or as the elders would say “Kiss and make-up” to their prospective mate.

What I have come to learn from counseling men who have come to me for support during a moment in their lives. The men continue to tell me is their female counterparts are in an isolation mode with a sterile statement “I prefer no contact” as this statement has a lot ambiguity in it. The men are totally irate when they hear this statement. The reason the men are irate is the women counterparts do not have any answers for them. This leads me to believe there is truly a major hidden agenda involved in the women’s lives. And, women refuse to say anything to men not to give more information to men then needed. This is a very sad moment for the men.

All the more the female counterpart could use some relationship counseling as their male counterparts. The only way the women will come into a relationship session is when they feel deep down in their hearts, minds, and souls a change is imminent for them to provide.

Let us pray for an imminent change for these couples to become forgiving, loyal, compassionate, understanding, accepting and loving to each other continuously

Free

There comes a time in our evolution where we can choose to become the witness to our own actions. It’s as if all of life is flowing through us and we are watching our life on display as if we were watching a movie. The Higher Self wisdom takes over and we embody our Divine true nature fully, unrestricted, free of judgment… Simply, Free. Let’s discuss Freedom; the absence of necessity, coercion, or constraint in choice or action. Imagine being liberated from the worldly illusions that keep us bound. What would it be like if we could free ourselves up from accumulating the many things in life that we’ve been programmed are going to bring us happiness and fulfillment? These may be physical things or ideas, such as the perfect relationship, or job or title. The illusion that, when you finally reach that level of status or achievement you’ve been striving for, only then will you be fulfilled, is just a concept that keeps us cycling in consumption. A great deal of energy goes into this process, making it difficult for us to relax the mind and experience our deeper nature as the Divine.

Perfect Friendships

Ramifications

Ramifications are not recognized by either woman or man when that particular mate has a subvert plan of action causes long lasting devastation for mate who has to go on with life alone. This is the case for too many couples in the advent of “Noncommittal” I have interviewed many couples who have been with the same mate for 65 plus years that continued to state the reason the marriage lasted to the 100 years was the action of kiss and make up was continuous implementation in each of the case I interviewed.
Just recently a woman out nowhere told a man she felt kiss and make up was not in her scope of living. She just wanted her book back that was given to the man and said, “I don’t have to give you any indicators of my decision “in summery she said, “It is not my nature to tell you nothing.” This left the man knocked off his rocker for not being permitted to say what he felt. This left the man stunned that his thoughts and feelings where disregard from the woman who was totally in control of this action.
The women concluded by saying now get friends, rest, and your own space. This was a statement of being uncommitted, selfishness, and inconsideration of a man who has a devotion to this woman. This is one of the many scenarios that will be popping in during these moments in our state of non-committal .

Space Is Better. A Message for the Man.

This message is for the Man:

Please listen to this short note of truly providing wonderful pleasure to your woman. You will experience an enhancing experience by providing space to your woman to have happiness, joy, and renewal of herself. These three elements will bring your relationship into new levels of alignment with both of you. The action is to provide her with space that she longs to have from time to time. You will feel totally serene. Serenity is where both of you want to be in your relationship.

To provide her with the proper supported space during your relationship will express how your love, care, and honor to her will continually to expand. This does not mean you have free reign to go off to act like a character out of “Animal House.” In essence, is to remain loyal to her during this honoring moment of love, care, and honor. This is the right expression of love you can provide to your loving spouse, fiancee, and best friend who you love all the days of your life. It is suggested doing things from the heart and the intellect will improve your spiritual alignment with your Higher Power that will increase your thoughts towards her. Most of all have something ready for your woman on the day of her return.

You will thank your Higher Power for this message to increase your marriage, engagement, and developing a better unity among the two of you.