Imminent Change

What I have learned from Relationships from couples who have been celebrating their 50 plus celebrations of marriage continued to say the re-enforcement in their long Gevity together was continuous forgiveness. Actually, they called it “Kiss and make-up” this is a good term to continue to use in our modern era.

It does not make sense when a particular couple can not achieve forgiveness in their lives. When forgiveness is not achieved it is when a particular male or female has a hidden agenda brewing within their minds some particular reason they can not grant forgiveness or as the elders would say “Kiss and make-up” to their prospective mate.

What I have come to learn from counseling men who have come to me for support during a moment in their lives. The men continue to tell me is their female counterparts are in an isolation mode with a sterile statement “I prefer no contact” as this statement has a lot ambiguity in it. The men are totally irate when they hear this statement. The reason the men are irate is the women counterparts do not have any answers for them. This leads me to believe there is truly a major hidden agenda involved in the women’s lives. And, women refuse to say anything to men not to give more information to men then needed. This is a very sad moment for the men.

All the more the female counterpart could use some relationship counseling as their male counterparts. The only way the women will come into a relationship session is when they feel deep down in their hearts, minds, and souls a change is imminent for them to provide.

Let us pray for an imminent change for these couples to become forgiving, loyal, compassionate, understanding, accepting and loving to each other continuously

Free

There comes a time in our evolution where we can choose to become the witness to our own actions. It’s as if all of life is flowing through us and we are watching our life on display as if we were watching a movie. The Higher Self wisdom takes over and we embody our Divine true nature fully, unrestricted, free of judgment… Simply, Free. Let’s discuss Freedom; the absence of necessity, coercion, or constraint in choice or action. Imagine being liberated from the worldly illusions that keep us bound. What would it be like if we could free ourselves up from accumulating the many things in life that we’ve been programmed are going to bring us happiness and fulfillment? These may be physical things or ideas, such as the perfect relationship, or job or title. The illusion that, when you finally reach that level of status or achievement you’ve been striving for, only then will you be fulfilled, is just a concept that keeps us cycling in consumption. A great deal of energy goes into this process, making it difficult for us to relax the mind and experience our deeper nature as the Divine.

Perfect Friendships

Ramifications

Ramifications are not recognized by either woman or man when that particular mate has a subvert plan of action causes long lasting devastation for mate who has to go on with life alone. This is the case for too many couples in the advent of “Noncommittal” I have interviewed many couples who have been with the same mate for 65 plus years that continued to state the reason the marriage lasted to the 100 years was the action of kiss and make up was continuous implementation in each of the case I interviewed.
Just recently a woman out nowhere told a man she felt kiss and make up was not in her scope of living. She just wanted her book back that was given to the man and said, “I don’t have to give you any indicators of my decision “in summery she said, “It is not my nature to tell you nothing.” This left the man knocked off his rocker for not being permitted to say what he felt. This left the man stunned that his thoughts and feelings where disregard from the woman who was totally in control of this action.
The women concluded by saying now get friends, rest, and your own space. This was a statement of being uncommitted, selfishness, and inconsideration of a man who has a devotion to this woman. This is one of the many scenarios that will be popping in during these moments in our state of non-committal .

Space Is Better. A Message for the Man.

This message is for the Man:

Please listen to this short note of truly providing wonderful pleasure to your woman. You will experience an enhancing experience by providing space to your woman to have happiness, joy, and renewal of herself. These three elements will bring your relationship into new levels of alignment with both of you. The action is to provide her with space that she longs to have from time to time. You will feel totally serene. Serenity is where both of you want to be in your relationship.

To provide her with the proper supported space during your relationship will express how your love, care, and honor to her will continually to expand. This does not mean you have free reign to go off to act like a character out of “Animal House.” In essence, is to remain loyal to her during this honoring moment of love, care, and honor. This is the right expression of love you can provide to your loving spouse, fiancee, and best friend who you love all the days of your life. It is suggested doing things from the heart and the intellect will improve your spiritual alignment with your Higher Power that will increase your thoughts towards her. Most of all have something ready for your woman on the day of her return.

You will thank your Higher Power for this message to increase your marriage, engagement, and developing a better unity among the two of you.

The hook to center of the earth

What can be expected in a relationship in modern days? What I have found out is releasing all the tensions, which can bring unrest into a relationship. One must and is encouraged to release anything which causes unrest to allow the depth of the relationship to transition into a strong, unified, and understanding unity. To have all these components can provide an unending strength, which will have true love among partners, mates, or spouses.
One will ask how all this can happen in a relationship. One must listen and hear what is being said during a daily communication between the man and woman. When certain component is emphasized within the dialogue the hope that particular partner will hear to take action to make the necessary improvements to continue to re-enforce the relationship. When that action takes place all the senses of the man and woman will enhance to elevate the relationship to a million decibels of pure love.
The process: This is when the individual hook is connected to the center of the earth one can have all the discomforts surge right out of your inner core. There is a process one does follow to eliminate all the discomforts in life. Once the process is accomplished each and every moment one is being in an area of discomfort finding a place of silence bring self into state of tranquility that one can proceed with the process of letting that inner hook slowly proceed slowly out oneself giving permission to eliminate all the chaos and crisis right out of your anatomy that will allow one to have a comfort meaning with your spouse and spouse to be. Once one's hook is totally at center of the earth core all the “Unkindness, selfishness, wants, needs, and any other selfish quality with totally jump off the hook right into the recesses of the core of the earth.
The relationship will experience higher transcending meaning between each man and woman. The transcending meaning will bring peace, comfort, and higher quality of nurturing between one and other. With the higher quality of nurturing will develop a real meaning of being for each other. When the couple are totally dedicated to one and other in this capacity the relationship will endure for 50 years plus giving an example to the rest of the culture and even the world. Thus, the relationship will have a new beginning to perpetuation of longevity. With the perpetuation of longevity will allow the blending of the hearts, minds, and souls to the Higher Authority and to each other.

In the final analysis; one will never have to use the statements “I want, I need, and I desire” ever again. For the blending of the two souls will regain a great realignment of a wonderful balance for a perpetuation of life with each other.

The Lacking Qualities

King qualities every relationship will continue to encounter once or twice in life. The lacking qualities are were one of the two does seem to see the bigger scenario, which brings the relationship down in one or another. Points to be taken in consideration are when one does not attend a planned date, how does this look when the date is planned with awaited anticipation by one of the two. The date comes to no surprise one of two does not show up for the event. How does this make the one who has keep the time and date ever vigil in the calendar to be deflated by the unpreparedness or the second. The feelings become hurtful and disorientated to the one who has been ready from the word "GO." Two; when one of the two starts to change the routine and behaviors of how this relationship should evolve without giving any consultation to the other, which become a despiteful action. How does that give feeling to the one who is not even consulted by this change of course. And, again everything is continually being justified by the one who navigates the relationship 50 to 100 miles in another direction. All the justification in the world does not take away the sting, which has given a lot of thoughts to the one who is being manipulated by all the justifications, are being feed cartes blanches without even knowing what has happened. Then when questions are being asked about this change of venue in the relationship, then everything is being skittered around the edges getting all the wrong answers to perfectly valid questions. How does that make one think of a person who has a been given a lot trust in a life, who can not truly speak the truth.