Ramifications

Ramifications are not recognized by either woman or man when that particular mate has a subvert plan of action causes long lasting devastation for mate who has to go on with life alone. This is the case for too many couples in the advent of “Noncommittal” I have interviewed many couples who have been with the same mate for 65 plus years, who continued to state the reason the marriage lasted to the 100 years was the action of kiss and make up was continuous implementation in each of the case I interviewed.

Just recently a woman out nowhere told a man she felt kiss and make up was not in her scope of living. She just wanted her book back that was given to the man and said, “I don’t have to give you any indicators of my decision “in summery she said, “It is not my nature to tell you nothing.” This left the man knocked off his rocker for not being permitted to say what he felt. This left the man stunned that his thoughts and feelings where disregard from the woman who was totally in control of this action.

The women concluded by saying now get friends, rest, and your own space. This was a statement of being uncommitted, selfishness, and inconsideration of a man who has a devotion to this woman. This one of the many scenarios that will be popping in during these moments in our state of non-committal .

This is not my nature?

Recently, I had a session with a client, who indicated  a woman he loved disappeared, while he took ill with a recent illness. The client was alone and abandoned by the woman he loved with all his heart, mind, and soul. He called her on several occasions during the illness to visit and provide loving care to him.  He was frustrated upon hearing her voice mail message.  The woman never heard  any of my client's calls of outreach.  He ended up calling  a mutual friend that he thought would speak well on his behalf.   That mutual friend  did not speak well for my client and reported to the client's woman that he was being a bother.   The phone call the mutual friend placed did not go over well with the client's woman at all.

When she found out that he called to relay a message over to her. She completely read  the client the riot act.  The client was completely  responsible for the illness, which was contracted from being "burnt out" from working a lot and lack of support. The woman felt she had nothing to do with the client's illness or was responsible for the client health and wellness at all.   She even did not do anything to provide support, care, and most of all affection my client longed for in his life.  All she could say "It Is Not My Nature." In her summation, she told my client never to call her ever again.  That was the poorest excuse ever spoken to a man that was completely drained in this state of  life.

What was my client to do being alone during a burned out segment in life.  My client placed a lot faith in this woman to provide care to him at this moment in history. This woman made life for my client harder, then it should have been.  This was the hardest moment for my client from a 360 viewpoint.  The most frustrating too, the client's employer was calling for him to return to work two weeks earlier from what the medical director orders were placed into writing. .  He was completely under a medical director care not to return to work until the day prescribed.  I am proud of my client standing up for his health and wellness to the employer.

This woman was not  "Virtuous" at all to my client.  This is an example of a statement recently sent  to me.
"A quiet man is a thinking man. A quiet woman is hatching a plan."  My client was completely unfairly treated by this non virtuous woman, who thought she did not have be virtuousness to my client.