What I have noticed from speaking to young couples in one way or another there is a one out the two who have taken their eyes off themselves to palace their eyes on the other. Then for another reason the other continues to keep their eyes on themselves. That is truly a sign there will be a hidden agenda is brewing, which mean the person who is will totally for the other will become a victim in the relationship.
Each time I continue to meet with a person in every session “Take your eyes off yourself to become a more effective member of your relationship” I am happy when those take my advice to become a Servant of servant to your mate. Although, it saddens me to hear how the person who has taken his/her eyes off have been hurt by the actions, which has cause mille of hurts.
I continue to emphasize take your eyes off yourselves to develop a stronger relationship to last until both of you come to the final analysis of life.
